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PDR coaching questions

GROW (Grow, Reality, Options, Will) is a coaching model by John Whitmore and provides a framework for a coaching session, a conversation, or a meeting. 


The following are some examples of GROW coaching questions which can support 1-to-1 conversations.

They aren’t intended as an exhaustive list and the questions asked during a coaching conversation will be determined by the dialogue between manager and individual at any one point in time.

However, these GROW coaching questions do serve as examples to help illustrate the different stages of GROW.

Goal 

  • What do you want to achieve?
  • What is important to you right now?
  • What would you like to get from the next 30 minutes?
  • What areas do you want to work on?
  • Describe your perfect world.
  • What do you want to achieve because of this session?
  • What will make you feel this time has been well spent? 

Reality

  • Where are you now in relation to your goal?
  • On a scale of 1 -10, where are you?
  • What has contributed to your success so far?
  • What skills/knowledge/attributes do you have?
  • What progress have you made so far?
  • What is working well right now?
  • What is required of you?  

Options 

  • What are your options?
  • How have you tackled this or a similar situation before?
  • What could you do differently?
  • Who do you know who has encountered a similar situation?
  • Give me 5 options
  • If anything was achievable, what would you do?
  • What else?   

Will

  • Which options work best for you?
  • What one small step are you going to take now?
  • What actions will you take?
  • When are you going to start?
  • Who will help you?
  • How will you know you have been successful?
  • How will you ensure that you do it?
  • On a scale of 1 -10 how committed or motivated are you to doing it